So, my hubby told me that I was a little full of myself calling this feature “Project Me”, but the fact is it’s a project and it’s about me. If you’ve been following my blog for awhile then you know I have started several workout programs, diets, etc. and never finished one of them. I’ve made excuses and let other things get in the way. I’ve done this with a few things, even this blog. Do you believe in signs? I do. Over the last two weeks things have been said to me or happened around me that caused me to take a long hard look at my life.
Here are some of the things I’ve come to realize:
1. I have more control over my life than I give myself credit for.
2. I need to be a bit more selfish with my free time.
3. Stop feeling guilty for working on my blog or my body
4. No one is going to do it for me.
5. I hate most of my clothes.
Now, What do I do with this information? The truth is there comes a time when you need to make a choice. I chose me. It’s so easy to get lost in the mom, the wife and the worker. The person just disappears in a pile of dishes and homemade lunches. She becomes tired and boring. I don’t want that for myself. I don’t want this ass either that has been growing because I sit at this desk, but I can do something about that too. So welcome to project me! I’m turning this mommy around in 30 days and I’ll tell you how I’m doing it.
Day 1:
Once again I’ve decided to put my body through this torture known as Tracy Anderson’s 30 Day Method. I wasn’t able to make it through this brutal bootcamp in the past, but I’m having another go at. Today I spent 1 hour on this program. I ate in moderation and drank about 10 glasses of water and 2 cups of green tea! My energy level is off the charts in the evening and I’ve gotten more done today than I have in quite some time. I don’t know if I can do this workout again tomorrow. How can I not be sore as hell?
I set aside sometime to blog and go through my contacts. Oh, by the way, I’m actually making some money here so It’s not just a hobby. I need to spend more time writing so I can actually make a bigger income. That is one of my goals.
I was alert and present with my boys. We spent some quality time together today.
Pros: Lots of energy. I feel good.
Cons: I thought I’d get more blogging done. I ended up having to do some work at night. I’ll have to figure that out tomorrow. I also weighed and measured myself. Now, that was depressing!
Check in with me tomorrow and find out how I’m doing and what I’ll be tackling next!
YUMMommy says
It’s ok to be full of ourselves every now and then. Plus, as you pointed out the title makes perfect sense. I’m in the process of doing my own Project Me. I too have come to realize that I’ve been neglecting myself.
beyourbestmom says
Hey, if you want to hook up and share “project me” posts let me know. I love your blog and I would love to share your insights! Let me know!
Danielle Pecoraro says
Right on! A good follow.
beyourbestmom says
Thanks Danielle!
Walter says
There was a bestseller called “Looking Out For #1” (probably when you were just a kid), but the premise was that if you shouldn’t feel guilty taking care of yourself physically and mentally because that will translate into goodness to other people that you feel you are depriving by spending time on stuff you need to and even stuff you like to do. Your happiness is paramount in spreading happiness. If you’re crabby and negative or feeling sorry for yourself or guilty it will only project negativity. Good luck and have some fun time!
Susan Polifemo says
Walter, I love you but can’t you just say I Love Project ME!!!!!! ME! ME!ME! I’m starting right now on project me. I poured myself a glass of fine after working all day, taking my daughter to horseback riding, making dinner, checking homework and now I’m enjoying my sister’s blog.
Can’t wait for day two – living vicariously through you…
Susan Polifemo says
oops not glass of fine, glass of wine, maybe I better calm down and out the bottle away. LOL!
Susan Polifemo says
oops again – I better put my glasses on I can’t see the keyboard.
beyourbestmom says
I obviously have family issues:)
beyourbestmom says
Thanks!
Susan Polifemo says
I Love project MEEEEEEE!!!!!! WHAT A GREAT IDEA!!! I’m so on board with this…..
beyourbestmom says
I think you’ve totally screwed my comments up!
FYI- I talked to my sister tonight and she is sober- just unable to type correctly! LOL- I just can’t stop laughing. Love you!
Kelly Blackwell says
That is sooo funny. I just started a new blog which I am actually really beginning in January with Project Me in the title. I have been realizing that I really really need to focus on completing something. There are also a lot of things that I have wanted to improve from finances to fitness and beyond. I wish you the best! It sounds like day one was great!
beyourbestmom says
Send me the link once it’s up!